Whoredonna:
Simone’s Notes:
In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to
maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First
identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this
psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly
Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner
who has been degraded, the whore, while they cannot desire the respected
partner, the Madonna. Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and
where they desire they cannot love." Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing
in 2009, stated that the complex "is still highly prevalent in today's
patients". In sexual politics the view of women as either Madonnas or whores
limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to
construct a sexual identity. The term is also used popularly, if sometimes with
subtly different meanings.
Last night,
Manami dreamt that she spoke to her mother.
“Mother?”
“Manami?”
“Mother, is that
you?”
“Yes, my child.
It is me.”
“How are you?”
“Good. Listen,
do not forget your mission?”
“My mission?”
“Yes. The
deities are going to fight back.”
“What? That
can’t be possible.”
“It is, my
darling. You have to be on your guard for this.”
“But… I have
built up my kingdom.”
“It is not
enough. You need to make your kingdom stronger.”
“But how do I do
that?”
Her mother
chuckled.
“You have to
become the Whoredonna.”
“Whoredonna?”
“Yes, my child.”
“What is that”
And do I become her?”
“Let me show
you.”
Ai-Oni gave her
one kiss on the lips.
In that one
kiss,
Manami saw the
answer.
When she awoke
in the morning.
Manami knew what she had to do.